SOCL, 8C
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- Feb 28
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Updated: Mar 15
Sunday March 02, 2025
(Quinquagesima)
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We eagerly diagnose others' flaws while remaining blind to our own: this paradox reveals how self-deception protects our fragile egos. We construct elaborate justifications for our actions while holding others to impossible standards, creating a cognitive asymmetry that distorts all our relationships.
In families, workplaces, and online forums, this dynamic plays out daily. Parents criticize children for behaviors they themselves model; colleagues point fingers while hiding their own shortcomings; social media becomes an arena where everyone judges yet no one examines their own prejudices—thorn-bushes expecting to be praised for their grapes.
Transformation begins when we turn our analytical gaze inward first. The courage to confront our own "wooden beams" creates space for genuine growth and compassionate understanding. Only by tending to the roots of our own tree can we produce the authentic fruit of wisdom that nourishes rather than diminishes others.
Listen
Reflect
(Luke 6:39-45)
-Jesus compares hypocrisy to having a large beam in your eye while trying to remove a tiny speck from someone else’s. Think about times when you easily criticize others without noticing your own mistakes. What keeps you from seeing your own flaws? How would your relationships change if you looked within yourself first before correcting others?
-The story of the trees and their fruits reminds us that, in the end, our actions reveal who we truly are. Take a look at what you produce in your life—your words, your decisions, and the impact you have on others. What do these fruits say about you? In what areas could you strengthen your roots to grow better?
-Jesus also teaches that what we say reflects what we carry inside. Think about your recent conversations and the emotions behind your words. When have your words revealed something unexpected about you, whether good or bad? How could that awareness help you grow spiritually today?
Pray
Lord , you see clearly what we so often hide even from ourselves. Grant us courage to examine our hearts honestly, wisdom to recognize our own wooden beams, and humility to address them before attempting to correct others. Help us nurture good roots through your grace, that our lives might produce fruit that nourishes rather than harms. Transform our critical impulses into compassionate understanding, so our communities might reflect your healing love.
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