SOCL, AscensionC

Sunday June 01, 2025

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We treat presence as possession: accumulating time with loved ones, hoarding perfect moments, building relationships on constant availability. This economy of attachment transforms love into surveillance—monitoring WhatsApp statuses, demanding immediate responses, confusing physical proximity with emotional intimacy. Our connections suffocate under the weight of permanent expectation.

Yet the most painful departures often release the deepest presence. Children who become independent reveal the love that overprotection had buried; jobs we lose open paths that control never would have discovered. Absence creates space for memory to distill what's essential, for distance to purify affection of its possessive components.

Perhaps true intimacy requires strategic absences: the space that allows growth, the distance that makes reunion precious, the departure that transforms presence from entitlement into unexpected gift. The most transformative encounters are not those we control but those that survive our inability to possess them.

Listen

Acts 1:1-11; Psalm 47 [46]; Ephesians 1:17-23; Luke 24:46-53

Reflect

(Luke 24:46-53)

Reflect on relationships where your need for control or constant presence might be suffocating authentic connection. What fears drive your desire to keep close what you love, and how might these fears be limiting mutual growth?

Jesus departs physically but promises deeper presence through the Spirit, suggesting that true intimacy transcends physical proximity. How might this perspective change the way you navigate separations, losses, or transitions in your life?

Consider where you might need to create healthy space in your relationships—allowing autonomy instead of dependence, trust instead of control. What would change if you saw certain absences as opportunities for deeper connection rather than threats to the bond?

Pray

Lord, free us from the fear that turns love into possession. Heal our communities addicted to superficial connection, transform our relationships controlled by anxiety into spaces of mutual freedom. Make us wise to embrace the absences that deepen intimacy.

SOCL, Easter7C

Sunday June 01, 2025

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We champion independence, yet crave belonging. Modern life promises freedom through separation—curated social feeds, gated communities, personalized everything. But isolation masquerates as choice. We mistake proximity for connection, confusing networks with relationships.

True unity demands vulnerability. It requires dismantling the walls we've built to protect our carefully constructed identities. Like fingers learning they belong to the same hand, genuine connection happens when we stop competing for individual recognition and start moving together toward shared purpose.

The deepest human longing isn't to be understood—it's to understand that we're already part of something larger. Unity isn't uniformity; it's the recognition that our differences serve a common wholeness, like instruments in an orchestra discovering they've been playing the same song all along.

Listen

Acts 7:55-60; Psalm 97 (96); Apocalypse 22:12-14, 16-17, 20; John 17:20-26

Reflect

(John 17:20-26)

Consider the relationships where you feel most isolated or misunderstood. What walls have you built to protect yourself, and how might these barriers also prevent genuine connection with others around you?

Jesus prayed for unity that reflects divine love—not agreement, but deep communion. How might viewing disagreements as opportunities for deeper understanding transform your approach to conflict and difference in relationships?

Where in your daily interactions can you choose vulnerability over self-protection? How might opening yourself to others' experiences create the kind of transformative connection that changes communities?

Pray

Loving God, whose unity encompasses all diversity, break down the walls we build between ourselves and others. Help us see beyond our differences to recognize our shared humanity. Transform our communities from collections of individuals into living expressions of your love, where justice flows and mercy prevails for all.

SOCL, Easter6C

Sunday May 25, 2025

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We construct elaborate monuments to presence—constant connectivity, curated feeds, endless documentation—yet feel increasingly hollow. The more we amplify our visibility, the more we disappear from ourselves. This frantic accumulation of evidence masks a terrifying suspicion: perhaps we exist most fully in the spaces between our performances.

True intimacy operates through strategic withdrawal. The parent who steps back allows the child to discover independence; the teacher who remains silent creates space for genuine questions to emerge. Love that clings destroys what it claims to protect, while love that releases creates conditions for authentic encounter. We mistake possession for connection, surveillance for care.

The deepest dwelling happens not through accumulation but through evacuation—clearing space for what cannot be summoned or controlled. Peace arrives not as the absence of disruption but as the presence of something uncontainable by our systems of security. We are most at home when we stop trying to construct home everywhere else.

Listen

Acts 15:1-2, 22-29; Psalm 67 (66); Apoc 21:10-14, 22-23; John 14:23-29

Reflect

(John 14:23-29)

Think about a relationship where you've tried to control outcomes through constant attention, checking, or managing—perhaps monitoring someone's social media, over-texting, or micro-managing a project. Notice how this hypervigilance creates anxiety rather than connection, pushing away what you're desperately trying to hold close.

Jesus promises that divine presence emerges through love expressed as faithful action, not emotional intensity or constant contact. Consider how stepping back from controlling behaviors might create space for genuine encounter—allowing others to choose freely, trusting without evidence, loving without possession or surveillance.

Where in your life could you practice "strategic absence"—reducing your need to monitor, control, or constantly connect? How might withdrawing your anxious attention actually create space for deeper intimacy, allowing both yourself and others to breathe, choose, and show up authentically?

Pray

Lord, you inhabit the spaces we cannot construct or control. Grant us courage to release our grip on relationships, trusting that love grows through freedom rather than surveillance. Help our communities discover intimacy through respect rather than intrusion. Transform our fear of abandonment into faith that true connection survives distance, silence, and the terrifying gift of choice.