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- Apr 5
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Updated: Apr 13
Sunday April 07, 2025
The mirrors we throw
See
We rush to document others' failures with screenshot precision while furiously deleting evidence of our own. The court of public opinion never adjourns, but somehow we're always on the jury, never in the defendant's box. Our selective outrage reveals not moral clarity but strategic blindness—we measure others by their worst moments while granting ourselves lifetime grace.
The stones we clutch aren't just weapons but shields. Behind each accusation hides a fear: that someone might apply our own standards to us. We build elaborate explanations for why our identical mistakes deserve understanding while others' warrant exposure. How easily forgiveness becomes a resource we hoard rather than distribute, available in abundance for our reflection but scarce for the stranger.
The ground beneath accusers and accused remains the same earth. The finger tracing in dust writes what we already know but refuse to acknowledge: we stand in both places simultaneously. True transformation begins not when we perfect our judgment but when we release the exhausting pretense of having earned the right to cast it.
Listen
Reflect
(John 7:53-8:11)
When did you last find yourself part of a collective judgment—piling on someone's mistake online, participating in office gossip, or mentally cataloging others' failures? Notice how comfortable it felt to stand outside the circle looking in.
Jesus disrupts our rush to judgment not by denying wrongdoing but by expanding the circle until it includes us all. What would change if you approached others' mistakes with the same context and compassion you hope others apply to yours?
Identify one person you've been holding to an impossible standard. How might your relationship transform if you set down the stone of judgment—not excusing harmful behavior, but creating space where growth becomes possible?
Pray
Lord, you see completely without condemning. Grant us courage to examine our own hearts before criticizing others, wisdom to recognize our selective standards of judgment, and compassion that creates spaces of transformation. Help us become people who offer others the same grace we desperately need ourselves.
